During highly volatile times, Life will literally rip two people apart. Yet due to the Earth’s incredible Mass, gravity soon pulls down these volatile high speed particles and over time a new equilibrium is formed and peace is regained. During a natural disaster like an erupting volcano, millions of tons of debris are launched into the air. It’s a constant which although people know about its one of those rare things that can and should be taken for granted. Her strong intimate relationship with Alex continues unabated.įurthermore, Newton’s Second Law is often written for acceleration due to Earth’s gravity, g as: F = mg In other words, if Brenda has high self-worth then she has a large degree of Emotional Mass hence any new Emotional Love from Charles would only lead to a low level of Intimacy between herself and Charles. To extend our contrived example: If Brenda truly loved herself then she’d be able to ignore Charles’ advances and maintain the loving relationship she currently has with Alex. Intimacy is the closeness between two people such that they experience a high degree of empathy for each other and seem to be emotionally/spiritually connected irrespective of the physical distance between them. In other words, Love is made up of Intimacy that is shared between two people. One-sided intimacy is unrequited love. It’s the thing that is more deeper than love. Intimacy: Just like acceleration, intimacy is always directed between two people. Some people have the strength of character and self-love to withstand what life throws at them hence they continue to keep placing their loving partners first, without compromising themselves. So, if Charles comes along and entices Brenda with his deep attractive attributes, then the net attraction between Alex and Brenda could quite easily be less.Ĭombined Emotional Mass: I suggest that people have something called Emotional Mass which shows their lack of susceptibility or emotional inertia to an external change, for example: a new loving intent, handle a life-changing event or otherwise. In which case, Net Emotional Love, means the attraction between two people taking into account anyone else. Net Emotional Love: By Emotional Love I mean the mutual attraction between two people, say: Alex and Brenda. Intimacy = Net Emotional Love / Emotional Mass Just to complete the analogy, the equation to represent the Second Law of Emotional Love is: As the Emotional Mass of either is increased, the Intimacy between them is decreased! As the Emotional Love is increased, the Intimacy between them is increased. The Intimacy of two people depends directly upon the Net Emotional Love between them and inversely upon the combined Emotional Mass of them both. The Second Law could be rewritten as follows: This law is commonly represented by the equation: F=m * aīut for our purposes, I prefer the following (and more accurate) representation: a = F / m Newton’s Second Law of Motion is: The acceleration (a) of an object depends directly upon the net force (F) acting upon the object, and inversely upon the mass (m) of the object. Existing relationship: Their relationship breaks-up because Life introduces a third person which entices one of them away or Life creates a personal calamity for one or both of them of such brutal intensity that one of them decides to end the relationship.

Alone: Life introduces them to a new person with whom they fall in love with.This First Law could be rewritten as follows:Įvery person continues in a Stable State of isolation or loving relationship unless acted upon by an External Life Event.īy S table State I mean that they might either already be “happy and content”, or equally they might be “sad and unhappy” irrespective of being alone or already in a relationship.Īn External Life Event means in the context of whatever state they’re currently in. Newton’s First Law of Motion is: Every body continues in a state of rest or uniform motion until it is acted upon by a net force. On the 5th July 1687, Sir Isaac Newton published his book: Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica, where he provided new insights in Physics, Mathematics, observations of Gravity and derived the infamous three Laws of Motion.Īs a simple exercise in mental futility and humour, I have tried to explain this crazy little thing called Love, by using Newton’s Laws of Motion to describe the intimate relationship between two people in love.

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